Self Image

As a whole I think that our society has become obsessed with creating our "perfect" self image. I feel like we are not really who we are, but who we want others to think we are. In the words of a gangster were just frontin', we are just putting on a show that we are better than we really are. We don't want others to know that we actually don't have it together, we are afraid to let others know that we are not perfect. We think that if they know we are not perfect, how can they ever like us and want to be our friends?

For example, what pictures do we post on Facebook, how much time do we spend making ourselves look good before we open that door? For some reason we have bought into the lie that if we pretend, if we act like we have the best life, the best friends, the best possessions, or the best looks we will become popular and loved. Love is not gained by being someone your not because they are loving who you are trying to be, not who you actually are.

As Christians we even do this. We think that if we confess our failures and sins to others that they will think less of us. The truth of the matter though is that they struggle with sin and mess up too. It may not be in the manner that you do, but sin is sin nonetheless.

We try to put our self image out there as perfect and nice as possible because we want to be like others who seam to have nearly perfect lives, clothes, bodies, or whatever. However, we are not perfect our lives are not perfect, sin was cast onto every single person who was and will ever be born. As Christians if we are trying to make our self image look good, how is that right? It is because of our sin and failures that we need Christ. If we are trying to fool people to think that we are perfect and righteous, we are lying to them. We are not righteous by anything that we do, it is only because of Christ's righteousness in us that we are made righteous.

Christ is glorified through our failures because people can easily see what Christ has done in and throughout us. If we are putting up our own "perfect" self image over those failures, how can people see that God has done amazing things inside of us. Besides what is our own self image worth? We are to be image bearers of Christ, not of ourself.

Our image is not to be perfect, but to be the profound image of Christ living in us.